Showing posts with label Blogging. Show all posts
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Monday, August 25, 2014

Day 7 | Someone Who Has Made Your Life Worth Living For

This is a continuance of a long ago forgotten blogging topic on my former blog Hello to Happy. My 30 Days of Truth will be continuing on this blog... I hope you enjoy.

Someone who has made my life worth living for...


Most definitely God, which is a no brainer. But other than Him, I'd say that I don't have just a someone, I have someones. My husband of 7 (going on 8) years and my two blessings from God.

Growing up, I always wanted a family dynamic much like the Huxtables... I wanted to be a wife, with a loving husband and beautiful kids. And I'm thankful to say that God has blessed me with both. Though we're nowhere near the lovable TV family, we're pretty darn close if you ask me. :)

Sure we've had our rough patches and our bad days, but God... But God is still in the mix so everything is everything. Haha. And I wouldn't trade them for the world.

Who has made your life worth living for?


Wednesday, November 13, 2013

New | Hello to Happy.com

 I have made the leap from Blogger on over to Wordpress, and to a new blog with different intentions. Come visit me!

Saturday, October 19, 2013

Still Married!


Do you know what today is? It's our anniversary...

Not really, but we're only one week away from being married for seven years (gosh, its been that long?). We never had the fairy tale wedding that girls grow up dreaming about, our son was with us on our two night stay at a local hotel for our "honeymoon" and we've never actually celebrated our wedding anniversaries other than the giving of gifts. No romantic trips or candlelit dinners. Bummer right? Yeah it is, I won't lie. But getting married so young, I was 20 and he was 19 (yeah I'm a cougar, rawwr! just kidding), and actually surviving seven years in this lustful sin filled world today is hard work and quite honestly romantic in its own right. At least I think so.

Monday, September 23, 2013

Finding Purpose


Hello loves! I pray everyone has started their Monday with love and expectancy in their hearts, and the motivation to make this a great week!

I awoke this morning like many others, wondering what my purpose is for the day and even my life in general. Then it dawned on me to do something that I've been thinking about for a while now. MAKE A VISION BOARD.

Sunday, September 22, 2013

UnPlugging


I've come to the conclusion that I spend entirely too much time on social networking sites. Therefore, I've decided to unplug...

Easier said than done, right? Especially for a social networking junkie like myself. Yes, I admit completely to my addiction. That's the first step to recovery, right? I'd be lying if I said I was going to go cold turkey and be successful straight out the gate, so I googled the movement of unplugging and I found a few great ideas on how to ease into it.

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Self Worth

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Self worth.
Something not enough women of this generation seem to have. Many feel some type of worth, but self worth? Not so much. Not that it's completely the woman's fault. A lot of factors play into it, the media being one and how it portrays a "beautiful" woman. Second in line are the men of today's generation who feel a woman isn't beautiful if she isn't half naked, or dragging a wagon behind her (big butt). These two things help to mold how our women view themselves nowadays. A lot of us feel we're not pretty if we're not up on the latest fashion, going to the hair and nail salon every week, or if the proportions of our bodies don't add up to 36-24-36.

I'm here to tell you, that is a lie.

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

First Carnival Cruise = Best Birthday EVER!

This post is PIC HEAVY... you've been warned.
I've never been the type to go all out or "turn up" as my generation says, for my birthday. Even as a child, birthdays were just that, the day of my birth. I don't remember having too many birthday parties (that I didn't have to share with my brother). Even when I became a teenager, my birthday didn't hold much weight as far as partying. I was lucky enough to get some ice cream and cake and a few birthday wishes. And once I had kids, their birthdays of course overshadowed mine and my husbands, so I never got out of the "no birthday celebration" rut until this year.

Seeing as how God is allowing me to see these birthdays, and people are dying left and right, I decided that I wanted to have a fun birthday, something memorable, while I still could. And what better age to start than at 27 right? Forget 16 , 18  and 21. 27, for me HAD to be memorable. I'd gone so many years without giving a second thought to my birthday, but I figured, God gave me this life, so why not enjoy it while I'm here. I can celebrate my birthday and have good, clean Christian fun, right?


Well, my husband made sure that I was going to have a memorable birthday. He decided to dig deep into his pockets and take me on a seven day cruise! My first cruise ever at that! We went to Roatan, Belize and Cozumel and we had a great time, just he and I. Living on a cruise ship for seven days wasn't as bad as I imagined it would be. I was a bit worried that I'd be prone to seasickness, because I'd never been on a boat to know it or not and I'm glad to say that I didn't. I got a little queasy every now and then with all the rocking, after I'd stuff myself into uncomfortability (not a word, but it should be) with all the free food, and lets not forget the free ice cream. But for the most part, I'd feel the ship rocking and rock right along with it. My hubby didn't hold back either, whatever I wanted to do or get, he didn't bat an eyelash. I'm not very materialistic, so I didn't ask for much, but just the thought of knowing he'd be willing to go broke for me and my birthday meant a lot more than coming home with an extra suitcase full of souvenirs.
Our first stop was in Roatan, which is an island right off the coast of Honduras that is actually a part of that country. We'd set up a shore excursion for once we got off the ship to "Discover Roatan" (that's what it was called). We got to ride an island style boat as they showed us some of their shipwrecks (not the best thing to show people who have to get back on a ship and sail into the middle of nowhere, but it was nice to see nonetheless) and other things in their beautiful waters. Then we hopped onto a small bus and were driven around the island, sightseeing and stopping to shop along the way, before we wound up in a village to meet some people from the Garifuna tribe and to watch them sing and dance in their native tongue. It was an enjoyable experience, I felt like I was in Africa. After the song and dance they'd offered us some of their traditional food which was pretty good!





Our second Port of Call was in Belize. This stop was tendered, so we had to get off of the ship five miles away from the shore, onto another boat that would then take us on a fifteen minute ride to land. That was an unpleasant excursion in itself. But once we did reach land, we'd boarded a chartered bus to take us on a two hour ride to the Xunantunich Mayan Ruins, which were a sight to see. Afterwards we were taken to a restaurant where they served us their traditional "Sunday Dinner" meal, which consisted of Stewed chicken, beans and rice (with coconut milk) and potato salad. Yum!








The last and final stop was in Cozumel, Mexico. We didn't have an excursion set up for this stop, so we decided to make our own way around the city. We rented, yes rented a car and my husband became our chauffeur. That lasted maybe 30 minutes and we quickly took the car back. Why you ask? Because driving in Cozumel is dangerous! Seriously. If you're not driving fast enough they will attempt to run you off the road and the pedestrians take no caution when crossing the street and will not hesitate to walk out in front of you, no matter how fast you're driving. So, we decided to take the car back and bear with the heat and walk around the shops that were near the ship. It was still a beautiful experience. Oh yeah, and I also learned that ripe coconuts are green, and become brown over time. Who knew? I sure didn't. Don't judge me.





All in all, from the entertainment on the ship, the free food (don't forget, the FREE ICE CREAM too.), the one on one time as well as visiting these three countries and learning about some of their cultures, it was a very memorable experience, and my best birthday to date. Bravo to my husband, and of course bravo to God for making it possible. Now I'm ready for my next cruise!


Saturday, June 22, 2013

Paula Deen and the "N" Word


The ‘N’ word…So, apparently Paula Deen admitted to using this word. In the beginning I had mixed feelings about it. My hubby told me about it first, and I didn’t feel any sort of way. Then I started feeling like, ‘a white woman (who I admired for her cooking skills) called someone a N----r, I should be upset!’ and so I was, for a whole day. Then something else hit me. Why should I be upset with her for using a word that we as black people call each other all the time? Why get upset when someone of a different race does it? The word is the word regardless. And I don’t buy that, ‘the real meaning and the slang term of it mean two different things’ mess. It means what it means, and nine times out of ten when we’re using it, it coincides with the meaning. I said WE’RE because I too have been guilty of saying it. So, I felt it would be a bit hypocritical of me to get upset with her using it. And probably more than half of the black people who are upset with her using this word, use it daily and probably have called someone of another race a derogatory name as well. So, pump your hypocritical brakes and address the situation with yourself before you try to gain some type of justice from someone else. I’m not trying to make any excuses for her, or downplay it, because wrong is wrong, regardless of what race you are. All I’m saying is sweep around your own front door before you try to sweep around hers. Ok?

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Do You Have a Blog???


If so, leave a comment below with the link. I'd love to read and see what's going on in your world!